WTF!?

Sometimes, it's just best to leave well enough alone and quit digging the (obvious) grave you happen to be standing in. But apparently, some people just are gluttons for making the earth as rocky as possible under them.

Before slinging stones and arrows about whose parenting skills are better than others, keep in mind that your OWN parenting skills are going to be brought into question. If you children aren't with you due to the courts feeling that you aren't a fit parent, you'd best not be telling others that they aren't fit parents because of xyz that they're doing. If you don't even *know* where your child is because the courts (and your ex) have determined that you aren't a fit parent, don't suggest that someone else might not be. And, just because you've been a foster parent for a whole 6 months (if that), it doesn't make you a "fit" parent. It just means you were able to jump through the (relatively) easy hoops it takes to get extra money coming in from the state to support you instead of having to go to work like most other people in the world. Consider that the state STILL didn't allow you to have full custody of your own child.

And as far as honesty is concerned, you shouldn't be slinging THAT millstone around, either, if you can't say you've never done anyone wrong. Which you have. Several times. I'm not even talking the little group of people who are now banding together wanting to see your final downfall. I'm talking about the state, who was duped by you for several months after you no longer had the kids. Yet you were still claiming food stamps for them. I'm talking about the person whose money you stole when you forged a check. I'm talking serious, real-life crimes here. You aren't an honest person - you are someone who preys on the loopholes of society to get what you want instead of working honestly toward goals to get what you need.

You are a user, an abuser, and you have no remorse in hiding your own shameful acts behind the waving of red flags about other people's shortcomings. You will forever be surrounded by their percieved drama because you are unable and unwilling to face your own inadequacies.

When you reach the bottom of the hole, you will find nothing but air, and it will not sustain the weight of your crimes - and thus, you will fall far beyond anyone else's help or sight - and you will not be missed.

~M